Narcissistic Behavior Exposed: Classic gaslighting with a twist of projection.This line — “He calls me crazy when I confront his lies” — might sound like it belongs in a romcom meltdown,
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Why does he say I’m the abusive one whenever I try to set a boundary? The Issue: Every time you try to protect your peace — you become the villain.
Why does he disappear when I’m struggling or need supportThe Issue: You’re in pain. Something’s happened. You’re overwhelmed, scared, stressed, or grieving. And instead of leaning in with support? He
Why does he accuse me of cheating when I’ve never even looked at anyone else?The Issue: This isn’t jealousy. This isn’t insecurity. This is projection — and it’s a manipulation
Why do I feel lonelier with him than when I’m by myself? The Issue: You’re lying next to him but feel invisible. You speak and get silence. You cry and
Why do I feel like I’m losing my memory around him? This one’s not just frustrating — it’s scary. And spoiler alert: it’s not early-onset dementia or you “being forgetful.”
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