🍎 The Narcissistic Teacher

When Education Becomes Indoctrination

Classrooms are supposed to be safe havens — places to explore, question, and grow.

But what happens when the teacher becomes the tyrant?

Instead of expanding your mind, they shrink your confidence.

Instead of teaching, they’re performing.

And instead of fostering independent thought, they reward obedience and punish dissent.

Welcome to the domain of the Narcissistic Teacher — where ego trumps education.

🧠 WHY CLASSROOMS ATTRACT NARCISSISTS

Teaching, when done right, is a deeply human, empathetic act.

But when the wrong person is handed the chalk, the classroom becomes their kingdom.

• Built-in authority and reverence
• A captive audience
• Little-to-no oversight in day-to-day conduct
• Ability to shape perception and reality
• Control over grades, punishments, and participation

📎 Real Talk Example:

“My professor used to joke about students who needed extra time. ‘This generation is so soft,’ he’d say. Half the class laughed. I just shrank into my seat.”

🎯 STEP 1: IDENTIFY

If You’re More Afraid Than Curious — Something’s Off

Learning requires vulnerability. A narcissistic teacher will exploit that vulnerability to:

• Assert superiority
• Demand conformity
• Discourage creativity
• Fuel their image of intellectual dominance

🚩 Red Flags:

• Embarrasses or humiliates students in front of others
• Dismisses student feedback or challenges as “disrespectful”
• Takes credit for students’ ideas, projects, or group success
• Frames their own worldview as the only “intelligent” one
• Makes rules up on the spot, then denies they ever changed them

📎 Example:

“When I cited a source that contradicted her theory, she gave me a C and wrote, ‘Clearly didn’t understand the assignment.’ But she never said we had to agree with her.”

🧯 STEP 2: MINIMIZE

You Can Learn — Without Getting Manipulated

You can’t always transfer out or switch instructors — but you can put emotional armor on.

Ways to Protect Yourself:

• Stick to rubrics and instructions to the letter. Narc teachers love to “catch” people slipping.
• Keep a journal of interactions, especially if something feels off.
• Save emails, assignments, and grades — document everything.
• Use academic advisors, ombudsmen, or guidance counselors as buffers.
• Don’t personalize insults. Their ego is the real curriculum.

📎 Example:

“I stopped arguing and started documenting. When he tried to fail me for ‘plagiarism,’ I had every draft time-stamped in Google Docs. Boom — case closed.”

🛡️ STEP 3: CONTROL

Take Back Your Academic Power — With Strategy

Just because you’re in their classroom doesn’t mean you’re under their spell.

Your goal? Learn what you need, protect your integrity, and get out smarter — not smaller.

Power Moves:

• Appeal unfair grades through official channels — don’t let fear stop you.
• Form study groups with peers who feel the same — you’re not alone.
• Request third-party observations if you’re being targeted.
• Use course evaluations to speak truth — they’re anonymous for a reason.
• Trust your intelligence. Their cruelty isn’t feedback — it’s fragility.

📎 Example:

“After I graduated, I wrote a detailed letter to the department head outlining the entire semester. I didn’t need revenge. I needed the next student to be warned.”

⚠️ THE GASLIGHT GRID: EDUCATION EDITION

⚠️ WHY THEY GET AWAY WITH IT

Because they hide behind tenure.

Because they cherry-pick favorite students as shields.

Because they’re charismatic, quick-witted, and “demanding excellence” — not abuse.

But here’s the truth:

A teacher who needs to dominate you is terrified of being challenged.

Their ego can’t handle your growth —

Because your independence shatters their illusion of control.

💬 FINAL WORD

A teacher’s job isn’t to be worshipped.

It’s to be useful.

So if you’re surviving a narcissistic educator:

• Stay sharp
• Stay strategic
• And stay grounded in what you know is true

Because someday soon, you’ll be out of their classroom —

But they’ll still be stuck in the same tired performance.

Author: Abuse No More